stole my son and wrote an online blog
making fun of me about it for three years.
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This case has cost over $500, 000 so far and it is a complete
miracle that we have been able to come up with the money. We have
worked multiple jobs and saved everything we can, and our family
has helped all they can, but its been incredibly hard.
One of the
things that makes this situation unique is that Megan Taylor,
the woman that stole my son, posted a blog about it on an MSN
chat blog called “Contested,” for three years. On
October 19th of 2007 I received an email from an adult-adoptee
I didn't know telling me that there was an on-line blog giving
details of our case, and that I needed to read it because the
things that were being said weren't right. I was surprised to
hear this because when this court case started Megan and Stuart
Taylor requested a gag order to keep all facts about this case
secret, though the Missouri Supreme Court later denied their request
to have it extended. When I entered the chat room I saw that there
were a great volume of entries that Megan had posted, spanning
practically every day from 2005 to late 2007 under the screenname
“Got2bMaeMae”, some of which were signed “Megan.”
These posts revealed intimate details about the court case and
the Taylors personal lives that only Megan Taylor could know.Click
here to see the blog in PDF form.
In these posts Megan Taylor reveals details about every single
court date, and the lengths that the Taylors went to in order
to steal my son. The posts give a behind the scenes look at the
real Megan Taylor and her motives and mental health. In the blog
Megan Taylor seldom refers to Craig as anything but “Sperm
Donor” or “SID,” and for me she uses the term“
The Incubator” and “Egg Donor” or “E.D.”(
Megan explains these terms gleefully on page. 15 of the blog)
The term “E.D.” appears to be racial , like Ibbaanika
is black and her skin's brown so she's a creature like E.T. the
extraterrestrial. She also reveals that she envies her sister's
ability to lord it over “Crystal” the woman whose
son her sister adopted . At one point in the blog she writes a
song about stealing our son in which she refers to herself as
a little girl and posts it. In other posts she makes fun of us
for missing Noah. There are numerous posts about the Taylor’s
intentions to flee the state and even the country, however, the
most offensive involve Megan Taylor being mean to my son when
we send him gifts and wanting to have Craig murdered because he
sent Noah a Christmas present. She goes on to vow to get the Supreme
Court justices ousted from the bench because they followed the
law and reveals that with the help of a lobby the Taylors are
meeting with senators behind closed doors to accomplish this.
In the blog Megan admits to long periods where she and her husband
are unemployed and committing welfare fraud in order to keep the
court case going.
Through the blog we were able to find out that the Taylors had
been lying in court about hospital visits ( they said our son
never had any, later, because of the blog, they changed their
story) and were able to get the medical records that showed that
our son had been burned and that Stuart Taylor had yanked his
arm out of socket.
The blog testifies to the Taylors’ ruthlessness, and lack
of respect for our son and the legal system. A print off of this
blog was submitted as evidence in court and Megan Taylor admitted
under oath that she had in fact posted these entries under the
name “Got2bMaeMae.” Nonetheless, the very night that
the blog was submitted in court Commissioner Molly Merrigan ordered
the entire “Contested” blog site be torn down. Before
she could do that though I saved it on my computer.
What is really more than outrageous about all of this is that
the Jackson County Family court was given all of this information
in court and still chose to terminate Craig Lentz's rights for
the exact same reasons that the Supreme Court of Missouri had
already overturned. They knew about the welfare fraud--and still
they did this. They knew about the child abuse--and still they
did this. They knew that the Taylors were laughing about breaking
the law and hurting this child---and still they did this. This
shows clearly that this is not a mistake, that the local court
is defying the Supreme Court of Missouri and that even if Megan
Taylor stood up and screamed “I stole this baby” the
Jackson County Family court would have decided the case just the
same anyways because they had already made up their mind to do
so. All of the court dates were just a way to waste our son's
time and our time.
This is the information they don't want you to see. Never in another
case of contested adoption has there been a closer look into the
lives of the kind of people who would steal a child through the
court system. Now, no one can assume that Noah is in a good home,
so the ends justify the means. Noah is not in a good home. This
blog is proof in Megan Taylor's own words that the Taylors are
unstable (p. 39) that this never has been, and never will be what
is best for Noah.
In this blog Megan Taylor talks about how the next time she takes
a child she will go with international adoption because then the
parents are powerless. The other women in the blog group all agree
with her. In light of the recent baby snatchings that are happening
in Guatemala the world needs to know about what's going on in
United States in order to protect itself, and we all need to realize
that its happing here too. There are other women in this blog
that are in other cases trying to take the children of other parents
and my hope is that this information can help these parents as
Below is a table of contents and a link to the blog. Because of
the vast size of this blog it take s few seconds to load in the
browser. For convenience there is also a copy of the blog in Adobe
Acrobat that prints quickly and is highlighted with notes. It
is the same blog, but this is probably the quickest way to access
blog in web form. (Click here to view)
blog in PDF form highlighted for easy access. (Click here to view)
Table of Contents:
p.1 Megan Taylor talks of feeling she is losing her sanity.
p.2 Megan Taylor talks of Ibbaanika asking the Taylors to give Craig
Lentz his son back.
p.3 Megan Taylor says she thinks she can terminate Craig Lentz's
parental rights on a technicality and exclaims “YIPEE!!!”
p.3-4 Megan Taylor talks of using visits to manipulate Ibbaanika.
p.6 Admits that Craig Lentz didn’t consent to the adoption.
Laughs at the idea that fathers should have any say at all on whether
their kids are adopted out against their will.
p.10 Megan Taylor says she wants to hibernate and not deal with
p.15 Megan Taylor expresses cavalier attitude toward what happens
to Noah if the adoption doesn’t go through. She explains the
term SID means Sperm Donor—her name for Craig Lentz, and ED
means egg donor. Egg donor and “the incubator” are the
terms she uses to refer to Ibbaanika Bond, Noah's mother.
p.16 Violates gag order. Slams her mother for not being sure that
this is of God. Compares self to Israelites in the wilderness.
p.17 Megan Taylor says she’s less “patient and loving”
towards baby Noah when his parents send gifts. Noah is 8 month old
at this time, Megan Taylor talks further of being withdrawn.
p.18 Megan Taylor talks of moving and hiding.
p.18-19 Megan Taylor talks about pampering herself and sipping wine
and having a bubble bath while she lived off welfare.
p.22 Megan Taylor says they’ll run as soon as the court case
p.23 More talk of fleeing state and hiding.
p.25 Megan Taylor says her sisters adopted son's natural Mother
“Crystal” knows her place. By her comments Megan Taylor
reveals in this post that she perceives that her own sister feels
she is of a higher class than the woman that gave birth to her adopted
son and that Megan Taylor envies this ability to lord it over the
natural mother and treat her like a second class citizen. Megan
Taylor says she never wants Craig Lentz to ever have any contact
with his son.
p.27 Megan Taylor tries to hide what she says—different image
than the one she presents.
p.29 Megan Taylor talks of Noah being so sick he has to go to urgent
p.39 Megan Taylor admits she can’t explain to Noah how she
took him from his parents without traumatizing him.
p.39 Megan Taylor talks more about fleeing “in a heartbeat”
overseas or out of the state. Says her family is “somewhat
p.43 Craig Lentz sent presents on his son's first birthday. Megan
Taylor responds by saying she wants Craig Lentz dead—“it
would simplify her life.”
p.44 Megan Taylor talks more of moving and hiding.
p. Megan Taylor makes fun of the fact that an unconstitutional law
took Craig Lentz's son.
p.47 Megan Taylor tells where Craig Lentz works. Breaks gag order
she asked for herself.
p.49 Makes fun of the fact that Craig Lentz misses his son , saying
“Go ahead miss him...he's NOT your son anymore”.
p.49 Megan Taylor says the Taylors had to take Noah to the hospital
because of an injury.
p.51 While Megan Taylor sits in her comfy home living off welfare
she sarcastically pities Ibbaanika Bond who is having to beg on
the street for money with a sign that says “help me get my
p.52 Megan Taylor says the day that they got temporary custody,
as far as she is concerned--that was an adoption.
p.53 Megan Taylor says Craig Lentz has no visits with his son and
she likes it that way.
p.56 Megan Taylor always calls Craig Lentz “Sperm Donor”
or “SID” which she explains on p.15 means Sperm Donor.
Clearly evidences her hatred of Craig Lentz and the negativity she
will teach his son to have towards his father.
p.57 Megan Taylor talks more of fleeing with Craig Lentz's son.
p.58 Megan Taylor says change in Supreme Court date is “God’s
sense of humor.”
p.61 Megan Taylor says the Supreme Court abused its power.
p.62 Megan Taylor slams Supreme Court saying they “took liberties
they had no business taking,” and “they clearly do not
understand the adoption laws.”
p.63 Megan Taylor talks of “trying to stay sane and function.”
p.63 Another post—April of 07. Megan Taylor calls Craig Lentz
a Sperm Donor and says she would like to have a magic wand she could
wave and “poof, make Bio-Sperm go away.”
p.64 Megan Taylor wants no visitation between Craig Lentz and his
son and thinks that it's best for Noah.
p.65 Megan Taylor hopes to cut Craig Lentz out of his son's life
on a technicality.
p.66 Megan Taylor expresses isolation, calls Craig Lentz a “psycho,”
calls herself “Drama Mama.”
p.67 First time Megan Taylor calls Noah Levi Bond “Jared,”
Though the Taylors claimed, under oath, at the court date she is
referencing, which took place on 8/24/07, that he’d been called
that all his life. Megan Taylor calls him Noah in all other posts
p.68 Gloats that Commissioner Molly Merrigan told Craig Lentz that
if Ibbaanika finds out about court dates Craig Lentz will never
see his son again, and says that the DFS plans to drag their 211
investigation case out so long that Craig Lentz's son will be stuck
with the Taylors forever. Says the DFS workers are on their side.
p.68 Megan Taylor says the Taylor's will never willingly give Craig
Lentz his son back.
p.69 Megan Taylor talks about being bankrupt.
p.69 Another post. Oct.23 3007—Calls Craig Lentz an idiot
and Sperm Donor—says it felt good to see him squirm in court.
Says the main question in the case now is will the commissioner
“have the guts to not cower to this legislature,” essentially,
will the commissioner have the guts to defy lawmakers, break the
law and illegally refuse to give Craig Lentz his son back.
p.72 Megan Taylor expresses gratitude for the gag order, saying
this story would have ended up on CNN long ago if it weren't for
the gag order.
p.73 Calls DFS social worker Carrie Hoffman clueless.
p.74 Megan Taylor says co-parenting plan won't work.
p.76 Says DFS is wasting her time.
p.78 Megan Taylor writes a song about everything, where she refers
to herself as a little girl and puts it on the internet.
p.81 Megan Taylor mocks Craig Lentz and other single parents fighting
to raise their children, saying the time they spend with their kids
is just “leftover crumbs.”
p.81 Posts on 11-4-07 the day before she is caught in court.
In all posts since July 07 she is breaking the gag order she and
her husband asked for and reemphasized that they wanted enforced.
She also breaks the gag order they asked for many, many times throughout